My Story
To say my life has been challenging would be an understatement. I am a survivor — not only of war and illness but of history, heartbreak, and personal sacrifice. And the quiet battles that shape a person’s soul.
I was born during the chaos of war-torn Vietnam. In 1975, as the country fell, my family and I fled as refugees (From the 60 Minutes Archive: Rescue – YouTube), leaving behind everything we knew. My earliest memories are of poverty and fear — first in Vietnam, where survival was never promised, and later in America, where we began again with nothing but faith and determination. I was just a child, yet I came close to death amid the violence. The memories of those moments never fade.
As I grew older, life did not become easier. While in college, I lost my father to cancer — a devastating loss that shaped the man I would become. Over time, I slowly built a life with resilience and gratitude. I’ve known struggle, but I’ve also known love, faith, and the quiet victories that come from overcoming. Every scar has a story. And every breath, a reason to keep believing.
Because of where I came from and the struggles I’ve overcome, I developed deep empathy for others facing hardship. For more than 40 years, I’ve dedicated my life to service:
- Volunteering at soup kitchens (something I still do today)
- Supporting homeless shelters and women’s shelters
- Providing baby necessities for unwed mothers
- Working with nonprofits
- Coaching kids in basketball
- Helping young adults pursue their GEDs
Serving others has never been an obligation. It has been my purpose/calling — a way to give back the grace that carried me through.
I’ve also been blessed with a family of my own. I’ve been married for nearly 20 years and have two wonderful children, now teenagers and student athletes in high school. More than anything, I want to watch them grow up. I want to continue God’s work through them. I want to be there for graduations, weddings, and — I pray — the joy of becoming a grandparent one day. I don’t want them to experience the pain of losing a father the way I lost mine.
Your Kidney Donation Can Give Me More Time With My Family
A Gift of Life
Could Save Alexander
Your Kidney Donation Can Give Me More Time With My Family
I’m Alexander – a father, husband, and community volunteer facing kidney failure. After surviving war, refugee camps, and COVID-19, I now need a living kidney donor to see my children grow up.
Become a Life-Saving Ambassador
3 Powerful Ways to Help:
- 1. Share My Story - Post on social media or tell friends
- 2. Organize Awareness - Host a community info session
- 3. Prayers
"Your time and voice can help find my perfect match" - Alexander
Organ Donation
One kidney can save two lives Healthy adults can donate a kidney and live normally. All medical costs are covered, and you’ll be prioritized if you ever need a transplant.
My Story
To say my life has been challenging would be an understatement. I am a survivor — not only of war and illness but of history, heartbreak, and personal sacrifice. And the quiet battles that shape a person’s soul.
I was born during the chaos of war-torn Vietnam. In 1975, as the country fell, my family and I fled as refugees (From the 60 Minutes Archive: Rescue – YouTube), leaving behind everything we knew. My earliest memories are of poverty and fear — first in Vietnam, where survival was never promised, and later in America, where we began again with nothing but faith and determination. I was just a child, yet I came close to death amid the violence. The memories of those moments never fade.
As I grew older, life did not become easier. While in college, I lost my father to cancer — a devastating loss that shaped the man I would become. Over time, I slowly built a life with resilience and gratitude. I’ve known struggle, but I’ve also known love, faith, and the quiet victories that come from overcoming. Every scar has a story. And every breath, a reason to keep believing.
Because of where I came from and the struggles I’ve overcome, I developed deep empathy for others facing hardship. For more than 40 years, I’ve dedicated my life to service:
- Volunteering at soup kitchens (something I still do today)
- Supporting homeless shelters and women’s shelters
- Providing baby necessities for unwed mothers
- Working with nonprofits
- Coaching kids in basketball
- Helping young adults pursue their GEDs
Serving others has never been an obligation. It has been my purpose/calling — a way to give back the grace that carried me through.
I’ve also been blessed with a family of my own. I’ve been married for nearly 20 years and have two wonderful children, now teenagers and student athletes in high school. More than anything, I want to watch them grow up. I want to continue God’s work through them. I want to be there for graduations, weddings, and — I pray — the joy of becoming a grandparent one day. I don’t want them to experience the pain of losing a father the way I lost mine.
A Survivor’s Journey
About Alexander’s
Fight for Life
I’m Alexander —a refugee, father, and community servant now battling kidney failure. My mission isn’t just to survive, but to keep helping others with your help.
Why This Matters:
- 1 in 3 people on transplant lists are minorities (like me)
- Living donors save 8x more lives than deceased donors
- My insurance covers 100% of donor costs
- Your share or prayer creates a ripple effect
Days I’ve waited for a kidney match
My Story of Survival
Mine is a story of survival—not just through war, poverty, and illness but also through heartbreak, sacrifice, and the quiet, everyday battles that shape who we are.
I carry my past not as a burden, but as proof:
I’m still here. Still standing. Still fighting.
A Fight for Life
More recently, I’ve faced death again, twice.
I nearly lost my life during the COVID-19 pandemic. Today, I live with a serious illness that requires dialysis three times a week. At one point, I needed it daily to survive. Now, I’m on the transplant list, holding on to the hope of a second chance at life.
Why I’m Reaching Out
Today, I face a new kind of battle: my kidneys are failing, and I am in urgent need of a transplant. I never imagined that this would be the fight I’d be facing after everything. Yet here I am — once again calling on the strength that’s carried me through so much — and asking for your help.
Also, because of my condition, I can no longer work and rely on disability support. Still, I endure. I have faith, and I believe in the kindness of others.
How You Can Help
This is not easy to write, but I know the power of compassion. I believe in the goodness of people.
Whether through:- Prayer: Please pray for healing, for strength, and for the right donor to come forward in time. Even a simple prayer can lift my spirit and help carry me through the darkest days. In moments of fear or pain, your faith gives me hope. Knowing that others are standing with me in prayer means more than words can ever express.
- Thank you for believing with me.
- Considering organ donation : If you feel moved, I ask you to consider something extraordinary — Becoming a living kidney donor.
Many people live long, healthy lives with just one kidney. Your gift could save mine and allow me to remain a father, husband, and servant to my community.
Even if you are not a direct match, kidney paired donation programs may still allow your generosity to help me or someone else in need. Or simply by spreading the word.
To learn more about becoming a living donor, please visit:
👉 RWJBarnabas Health: Living Kidney Donor Overview
Every share, every prayer, every act of kindness brings me closer to hope.
Thank you for considering this life-saving gift.
# Sharing my story :
If you cannot donate, you can still make a life-changing difference.
Please help by sharing this page with your friends, family, church, school, or workplace.
The more people who hear my story, the greater the chance of finding a life-saving match.
Every share is a step closer to hope.
Every prayer gives me the strength to keep going.
📢 Please share this message and keep me in your prayers.
📍 Learn more or start the donation process here:
👉 St. Barnabas Kidney Donation Program – rwjbh.org
And please give them my name: Alexander Do
The Living Donor Institute at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center (formerly St. Barnabas Medical Center) in Livingston, New Jersey, is a leading center for kidney transplantation and living kidney donation. Established as New Jersey’s first and only Living Donor Institute, it offers comprehensive services to donors and recipients. RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health+1
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Overview of the Living Donor Institute
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- Living Related Donor Transplantation: Donors with a genetic relationship with the recipient.
- Emotionally-Related Donor Transplantation: Donors with close relationships with the recipient.
- Kidney Paired Donation: Matching incompatible donor-recipient pairs with other pairs facilitates compatible transplants.
- Altruistic Living Donation: Donors who donate to someone in need without a personal connection.
- Compatible Share Program: Allows compatible donor-recipient pairs to participate in kidney paired donation.
- Program for Incompatible Transplants: Facilitates transplants for pairs with ABO and HLA incompatibilities.RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health+1RWJBarnabas Health
Our Cause
Help Alexander Receive His Gift of Life
Urgent: Living Kidney Donor Needed
Your generosity can give me more time with my family. Unlike financial donations, a kidney donation costs you nothing — my insurance covers all expenses.
Why This Matters:
- 100,000+ people await kidney transplants in the U.S.
- Living donor kidneys last 2x longer than deceased donor organs
- Priority for donors: You’ll move to the top of the list if you ever need a transplant
Hope By The Numbers
Your Decision Today Can Change Someone’s Tomorrow
1 kidney donor can create a lifesaving chain reaction — here’s how living donation makes an impact:
1 in 3
Transplant candidates are minorities
15-25 Years
Extended life expectancy With a living donor kidney
"One act of courage can
rewrite someone’s future."
Get In Touch
Help Me
Your Decision Can Save My Life
Becoming a living kidney donor costs you nothing – but gives me everything
For more information or to begin the living donor referral process, visit the Living Donor Institute page. To speak with a representative, call 1-888-409-4707. They can guide the donation process, answer questions, and assist with scheduling evaluations.RWJBarnabas Health
If you are considering becoming a kidney donor, the Living Donor Institute offers a comprehensive overview of the process, including eligibility criteria, benefits, and the steps involved. This information can help you make an informed decision about this life-saving gift. RWJBarnabas Health
Please let me know if you need assistance with any specific aspect of the donation process or have further questions.
Thank you for standing with me.
You have the power to help — and maybe, even save a life.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for reading, caring, and keeping me in your thoughts and prayers.
Why Living Donation Matters:
- My insurance covers 100% of your medical expenses
- Donors live normal, healthy lives with one kidney
- The laparoscopic procedure requires just 2-3 days in hospital
- You'll receive priority status if you ever need a transplant
Opening Hours
- 8:00 AM - 5:00 PM EST
- 9:00 AM - 1:00 PM EST
Living Donor Institute Locations
- New Jersey (Main Center)
- 94 Old Short Hills Road Livingston, NJ 07039
- (973) 322-5938
Be With Gratitude and Hope
Thank you for reading my story, keeping me in your thoughts, and lifting me in prayer. Your compassion gives me strength—and hope. Whether you’re a friend, a stranger, or someone passing by, know that you’ve made a difference today.
With love,
Alexander Do
- 212-203-7495
- Alex@NexusBA.com
Become a Life-Saving Ambassador
3 Powerful Ways to Help:
- 1. Share My Story - Post on social media or tell friends
- 2. Organize Awareness - Host a community info session
- 3. Prayers - Meals or encouragement during dialysis